Monday, May 14, 2012

Mr. Rogers & The Beastie Boys


Mr. Rogers gave us so much. A kind, gentle spirit for one thing.  A guiding life philosophy, for another. 

I’m not sure if he’s the one who came up with this idea, but he’s the one I heard it from first: “Live your life so that you have no fear of the truth.”

That’s good stuff, that is. Mr. Rogers was awesome. And so was his neighborhood.

Creepy Lady puppet. *shivers*
OK, sure, there was the bad puppetry. That Lady Elaine Fairchilde always creeped me out. And maybe his unusually cordial relationship with his delivery man skewed my impressions of how grown-ups acted toward one another. I mean, has anyone ever talked to a delivery man? Delivery men I know pretty much chuck stuff at my door and drive off.

Lately though, it's become clear that Mr. Rogers influenced me more than I ever realized because of his sweater and sneakers thing. When Mr. Rogers changed into his zip-up sweater and sneakers, it signaled the transition from the big grown up world to the slowed-down world of home and make believe. And that’s exactly what I do when I get down to work. I will often put on my comfiest hoodie as I suit up for battle with the Muse

Here's what I generally put on while I write. 


This is my Upstate New York sweatshirt. It's one of a kind and also a bit of a joke between my husband and me. See, my husband’s from Brooklyn and there’s this line of Brooklyn themed clothing that all the cool kids wear. But I won’t wear it because I didn’t grow up in Brooklyn, and I feel it would wrong.

RIP Adam Yauch. Word.
My husband special-ordered this Upstate hoodie for me so I could represent my lame-o, economically depressed, constantly cloudy ‘hood. 

And if you're inclined to take issue with that characterization, let me just point out that ain't nobody's writing rap songs about wanting to get back to Upstate New York. And therein lies the difference between cool and not cool. 

And there it is, right there. Mr. Rogers' wisdom at work: I'm not trying to be something I'm not. I'm living my truth ... about being lame. And I'm doing it in a comfy hoodie.

Do you have a uniform you wear when you're writing? A sweater? A pair of slippers? Sweat pants? Favorite vintage Beastie Boys t-shirt?

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Maybe I need a sweatshirt that says SUBURBIA on it! That could be some dang good inspiration.
1 reply · active 672 weeks ago
And this is exactly what it should say, SUBURBIA! Exclamation point included. Because you got to represent your 'hood with pride.
No, I don't have a uniform. But maybe I should get on. Anything that helps me soldier on.
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A helmet and bandolier perhaps?
The tried and true. I dare say that next to sweatpants, this is the most common writer's uniform.

I assume there are matching slippers to go with? Yes?
That's an awesome hoodie. My dad's family is from the Albany area. Way too many times have I had to explain to people that it is no where near or like NYC.
2 replies · active 672 weeks ago
Yes. New York State and New York City. No. Not the same. We had way more manure where I lived. And no pigeons at all.
We all grew up differently didn't we but its so interesting how similar we really are. Some of the beastie boys songs really resonate with that I think
Where do you go to school in upstate New York? My writing uniform is hideously ugly - a long-sleeved Gap T covered by a cashmere sweater full of holes and my fleece pajamas with puppy dog prints all over them. The cashmere sweater is in desperate need of replacement. Your hoodie looks snugly. I need one of those.
1 reply · active 672 weeks ago
I went to the gloriously overcast State University of New York at Binghamton, which has since been rechristened Binghamton University or some such nonsense.

Somehow I figured you for a holey cashmere sweater, Meghan. That suits you perfectly.
I ALWAYS say I'm like Mr. Rogers because the first thing I do when I come home is go change....but alas, there's fashionably witty hoodie. No, I change into comfy yoga pants because my ass is so wide now after having the second kid (FINE. FINE. It was wide before him) that respectable pants (i.e. pants you actually wear outside the house) are not as comfortable anymore. The best days, of course, are the ones where I never have to put on the respectable pants at all, and can remain in my yoga pants and t shirt and any kind of sweater.
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I can't wear yoga pants. I look like an idiot in them. I think it's because I actually bad mouth yoga all the time (it's BOR-ing) and so this is how yoga gets its revenge on me.
My hoodie looks just like your hoodie! Except instead of Upstate it says "Does this saddle make my ass look fat?" And there are mouse holes. Stupid mice.

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